Do you think that you have a strong and a sophisticated mind?

Have you ever felt like ‘I got this’ when you have got no one to support you. Or like, ‘dude, what made you think that I give a damn about others’ opinions?’
Well, congratulations. You have reached a dangerous level of maturity.
Once you overcome the fear of ‘what might other people think’ or ‘I cannot do this alone’, trust me when I say this, your life is going to change miraculously.
Along with this, you are giving a strong and independent vibe to others. This unique vibe of yours can intimidate others and you can make them respect you.
So, don’t you want to know whether you have this type of mind?  Read the following 8 signs to check it out.
  1. Don’t be an attention seeker
‘‘We buy the things we don’t like, to impress the people we don’t like” – Fight Club
It’s us who have made our entire life a competition. You see something you don’t have and then you literally die until you buy it and then you need something else.
Please remember that life is not a competition. You won’t be at peace if you always compete with others. So cut that mentality. Be happy with what you have and be confident about yourself. You have born to impress yourself. Not the others.
  • Engage in meaningful conversation.
“When you talk, you are only repeating what you already know. But if you listen, you may learn something new”
When you engage in a convo, make sure that it brings you a positive impact. You won’t achieve anything from small talk. It will save you time and energy. So by engaging in a meaningful conversation, you will face a significant change in your life.
  • It’s okay to be ignored
This is all about your mind. It’s you who think that you should fit in, everyone should pay you attention.  But, have you ever felt being ignored is a blessing because I have. Personally, I have only 4 real friends and that’s perfectly enough for me. Fewer friends you have, less drama you have to face. So never feel down if someone ignores you because there are people who will move mountains to be with you.
  • You are secured
It is normal that you feel unsecured. One day you feel you are on top of the world and next day Boom!, you are reaching the rock bottom. So what’s the witchcraft behind this? Have you ever wondered? It’s your own mind playing the part. It’s your brain which assures you are safe and it’s the same brain which makes you doubt about your existence. So be positive. That’s how you should train your mind even though it’s difficult.
  • ‘Words may show a man’s wit, but actions his meaning’
Words can create literally a whole universe. But it’s the actions which need the real effort. So, we should be wise enough to pay attention to the actions not to words because words can misguide you. That’s why we have to be with people who are true to words. If a person says something and does something else, we have to question his or her personality. It’s up to us to make a choice about the people we associate.
  • Always listen
As I mentioned earlier, when we talk, we are only repeating what we already know. Before you speak, listen what to the other. We only hear what we want to hear. That’s why we need to go beyond just listening and have to pay real attention.
7) Never be afraid to speak your mind, you have one for a reason.’
You have to speak your mind no matter how hard it could be. Be true to your words and to your actions. The truth can be the most difficult thing in the world. But if you have the courage, to tell the truth and stand for the truth, there’s no greater human than you are.
  • Be teachable
Being humble isthe quality of a human. So when you are humble, you are teachable. This means that you get open up to various fields and a vast area of knowledge. One must possess this quality to personality development.
These 8 signs show that you own a strong and a sophisticated mind and trust me these character traits can improve your personality and make you one of the most unique living creature in the world. 

Scroll to top